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Sex Toys

ALL ABOUT SEX TOYS

According to recent research, sex toys were invented even before mankind had developed writing or the wheel. It has always been observed that humans are very sexually innovative. From the olden days to the future of sex toys, one thing is certain, that sexuality is a core aspect of humanity.  

Historically sex toys were used for pleasure as is evident from the many remains that have been discovered in different parts of the world.

As time went on, doctors began to believe that these pleasure products could also be used to treat medical issues like hysteria. George Taylor, M.D., invented the steam-powered vibrator to relieve what was coined at that time to be “women's symptoms”. The famous electronic brand Hamilton Beach was the first to make an electric vibrator, pre-dating even the electric iron and vacuum cleaner. Sex toys have been evolving ever since.  It wasn't until the '90s, around the time the hit television show ‘Sex and the City’ introduced us to the Rabbit Vibrator, that the general public became more comfortable with the presence of sexual products in media.

According to current industry insights, the sex toy business is growing at a fast pace, thanks to the freedom to express one’s desires and shed inhibitions. These ‘treasures of pleasure’ come in different types, shapes, and sizes! Sex toys like dildos, vibrators, pussy pumps, clitoral stimulators, pulsators, sex dolls, penis enlargers, sleeves, masturbators can level up the ecstasy and help you attain maximum pleasure. The advent of sex toys gave some liberty to men and women to explore their sexuality, their preferences and gave them a chance to open-up communication in the bedroom with their partners. From basic insertable dongs to the more advanced vibrating, rotating, silicone dildos, these sex toys have come a long way. From clitoral stimulators and vibrators to penis sleeves and Fleshlight, the sky is the limit in this adult sex toy industry!

Today, sex toys are used by a large number of the population. Sex toys are for everyone including those who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, cisgender and transgendered whether alone or with a partner to come together and increase pleasure. There is a trend towards more inclusive, innovative and user-friendly products. Manufacturers are now creating pleasure products that are used for multiple purposes. Fun fact, eighty-one percent of women have used a vibrator in bed with a male partner.

Sex toys are used in the interest of improving sexual pleasure and are often found highly beneficial for individuals with physical disabilities or those suffering from erectile dysfunction or anorgasmia. Many popular sex toys, vibrating or non-vibrating, are designed to give pleasure to all bodies. Toys like Vibrators, Dildos, Pussy Pumps, Kegel Exercisers, Ben-Wa Balls, Clitoral Stimulators, Pulsators, Breast & Nipple Clamps, Sex Dolls, Penis Enlargers, Cock Rings, Penis Sleeves, Masturbators and many other types of adult sex toys are available in the market today. Let’s take a look at all these sex toy categories in detail below:

SEX TOY CATEGORIES

Sex Toys Vibrators

Vibrators-  Vibrators have become the go-to pleasure product to have in your collection. Vibrators come in different sizes and shapes, with multiple stimulating functions and vibrating speeds which have been carefully designed to arouse and please. These vibrating sex toys could be made of silicone, glass, jelly, rubber, cyberskin material, any many others. While vibrators may make for stronger orgasms and the ability to achieve climax easier and faster, they do not prevent a woman from achieving orgasm during intercourse. These days vibrators can be designed for clitoral stimulation, anal stimulation, vaginal stimulation and sometimes a combination of zones at the same time. Since our realistic vibrators at Aren’t We Naughty are made with premium grade silicone, they are extremely safe to use, allergen free, are odour free and can be used for a long time if proper care is taken.

Did You Know- The sex toy market for vibrators is $1 billion, more than twice the condom market size!

Enjoy the good vibes! 

Dildos- Mention adult sex toys and one of the first things to come to mind is probably the ever-reliable dildo. Let's take a closer look at this popular sex toy and see what makes it such a favourite. Dildos are objects intended for insertion into the vagina or for anal use. Some couples like to reverse roles, with a power exchange of who is giving and who is receiving penetration. Many dildos are curved to reach and stimulate the G spot.

Another variation is the double-penetration dildo. This type has a long thick part for vaginal penetration and a shorter, thinner portion for anal penetration. Some dildos even contain a vibrating component to provide additional erotic sensations. Using a lubricant with your favourite sex toy will make both vaginal and anal play much more enjoyable. Dildos are made from a lot of different materials like Jelly, Latex, Silicone, Cyberskin, Plastic, Glass, and many more. The best ones to date have been found to be silicone dildos as these sex toys repel any odour, are body-safe and, being made of a non-porous material, silicone does not hold onto bacteria. Check out the all-new range of our dildos at Arentwenaughty.com.  There are a lot of awesome reasons to use dildos!

Sex Toys Pussy Pumps

Pussy Pumps Pussy pumps are amazing little sex toys that can bring a whole new element of fun to your sex life. By increasing the blood flow to the clitoral and vaginal area, it is a natural arousal beyond your wildest dreams. When a clitoral pump is used, it increases this blood flow rapidly, causing the clitoris to swell and become sensitive. The best position to start is to lay on your back with your legs spread. Have the top of the cup resting on your pubic mound and make sure that the bottom of the cup is covering the vaginal entrance. The suction effect is felt most intensely during the release of the bulb, not during the squeeze. Releasing the bulb quickly causes the air to be sucked out of the cup very rapidly.

“Squeeze fast. Release slowly” is the golden rule of this popular sex toy. This suction on your intimate parts can feel amazing and really increase your pleasure during intercourse and other vaginal stimulation.

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Kegel Exercisers- These little exercisers help you strengthen the pelvic floor, which supports the bladder and lets you have a powerful orgasm.  If the pelvic muscles are weakened, you might start experiencing urinary incontinence. However, Kegels aren’t just for tightening and toning your vagina.

Sometimes getting to the big O can be difficult. In fact, only 25% of women report that they consistently climax during intercourse. Though very few women can orgasm from penetrative sex alone, you can increase your odds by strengthening your pelvic floor. Doing Kegels helps to tighten your PC muscle, which is one of the muscles that contracts during orgasm.  In addition to that, you’re increasing the amount of blood flow to your vagina. This is a key element of arousal while having sex.

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Clitoral Stimulators-  You may not know this, but 70% of women need clitoral stimulation to achieve an orgasm and are unable to orgasm through penetration alone. This makes clitoral vibrators great for solo play and couples’ play, as often clitoral stimulators are discreet enough to slip between you and your partner during sex. A totally unique clitoral stimulator is the Satisfyer Pro 2, which uses pressure waves to stimulate the clitoris rather than vibrations. In this way, it teases the entire clitoris and produces incredibly intense orgasms that feel unlike anything you’ve experienced before. It’s a really ergonomic sex toy and is light weight so you can focus on how pleasurable it feels in use.

In recent years, the market has exploded with new and improved clitoral vibrators. They come in different shapes, refined for maximum pleasure and ease of use. Some of them are USB rechargeable, or remotely controlled, hands-free, or synced to your phone. Plus, they can enhance couple play, as well! Do yourself a favour and buy one now. Rabbit vibrators are the most popular clitoral shape. Dual vibrators that have a shaft and clitoral stimulator are great for solo play as they stimulate both inside the vagina and the clitoris simultaneously. 

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Sex Dolls- A sex doll is a type of sex toy that aids in masturbation. The sex doll may consist of an entire body with a face, or just a head, pelvis or other partial body, with the accessories (vaginaanusmouthpenis) for sexual stimulation. The parts are sometimes vibrating and may be removable or interchangeable. Sex dolls exist in many forms but are distinguished from sex robots, which are designed to be able to exhibit more complex interactions. A standard masturbator is typically made from TPE and requires a little bit of maintenance.  We understand your sex doll is an investment, and we have put together a list of tips for maintaining the quality and life of your sex doll.

  • Always use a water-based lubricant when using the vaginal, anal and oral canals.

  • Do not leave your sex doll’s arms or legs up or open for any period longer than a few minutes. If you leave your doll with her arms up or legs spread, the stress placed on the TPE will cause tearing.

  • Your sex doll’s body should be thoroughly cleaned every 30 days by bath or shower using a mild antimicrobial soap.

  • Refrain from sharing your sex doll with anyone else, to prevent the spreading of disease.

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Penis Enlarger’s & Sleeves- Penis Enlargers are a s tep up from the famous penis pumps. These sex toys help in enlarging penis size with their use over time. There are a lot of pills and toys available in the market to increase the size of your penis. Always be careful while selecting the type of enlarger or the sleeve that you buy for yourself. The extenders and sleeves not only enhance your sexual confidence but also may improve your partner’s enjoyment.

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Masturbators - Through the use of incredibly soft, supple, life-like materials, this sex toy category provides remarkable realism in simulating the real experience. There are a lot of companies like Fleshlight, Calexotics, Doc Johnson and others who have devoted customers praising their products.  Using varying pressure, with different grips, switching hands, and 'edging' — getting yourself to the edge of climaxing and then backing off— are just a few of the techniques you can use to heighten your pleasure. Whether it's acting out a fantasy with your favourite porn star, having something to add a little fun to shower time, or lasting longer in bed, masturbators have come a very long way.

Generally speaking, couples who can explore novel ways of being intimate —including trying out one or more sex toys — tend to fare better in terms of maintaining passion and desire (in addition to relationship satisfaction) for the long haul. Research has found that there is a correlation between women and men who reported feeling satisfied in their relationship sexually and emotionally, also reported having used sex toys together. Adding a sex toy to your session can inspire creative new positions and allow you to reach new levels of pleasure with your partner. It can also allow your relationship to be more open to new experiences and let you both be sexually adventurous.

CARING FOR YOUR SEX TOYS

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  Not washing your toy, using the wrong lube, or storing it incorrectly can all lead to problems, whether that's a shorter lifespan or distortion of your toy or a risk of an infection for you. In order to avoid any inflammations and diseases, sex toys must be cleaned properly before and after use. Cleaning your sex toy is easier these days with a lot of options available in the market.

  First thing first, when buying a toy, find out what it's made of since its material and the presence of a motor will determine how it's washed. 

If your beloved sex toy is made up of silicone, glass, stainless steel, or wood and is motorized, it is best to use a mild soap and a damp cloth to wipe the toy clean.

If the packaging material of the toy says that it is made of Silicone, Pyrex, stainless steel, or stone and it is not motorized, then place it in boiling water for 7-9 minutes or simply run it through the dishwasher without washing soap. The hot steam will disinfect your toy as well as make it squeaky clean!

Sex toys made of Cyberskin usually use only a little soap and warm water to clean it. Too much friction, rubbing etc can spoil the Cyberskin material.

Today, sex toys come in a variety of materials. Toys made of hard plastic, elastomer, TPR, or jelly rubber all of which are porous materials usually get contaminated faster than the non-porous sex toys. It is always advisable to use a condom before using sex toys made of materials listed above.

Try using any of these toy cleaners listed on our website and pamper your sex toy like your babies.

STORING YOUR SEX TOYS PROPERLY

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Sex toys are awesome! Don’t just toss them away in your drawer after you are done. Most of the sex toys from arentwenaughty come with discreet bags or small containers; it's tempting to toss all that packaging, but it is a good idea to hold on to them. Especially since it makes keeping cables, chargers and extra accessories and manuals together with toys much easier.

If you are planning to pamper your sex toy, why not gift them some good storage options! Check out the Toy Storage section now.

CHARGING OPTIONS FOR YOUR SEX TOYS

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Since sex toys vibrate, there needs to be something to give life to them! Here are a few common ones that are used -

BATTERIES

Be it the AA or AAA or even the button batteries, these toys have umpteen number of battery size options. They are cheap, easy to replace and always available in the market. Most toys use rechargeable NiMH batteries that really last long.  Check out a few options on our website.

WALL PLUG

Vibrators that charge/work through a wallplug power source are generally the most powerful vibrators available. That's because they plug right into the wall and don't rely on tiny little batteries. You also won't run out of batteries when you're almost having an orgasm!

RECHARGEABLE

Manufacturers today understand the customer’s concerns and make vibrators that can be charged for a while and have a battery to run without being plugged in. Although they're expensive but are worth it. Most of them on our website are like that. Take a look here.

LUBRICANTS FOR YOUR SEX TOYS

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With more and more people toying with the idea of using a sex toy, the question on everyone’s mind is how one knows whether their lubricant is ok to use with their sex toys or not. There is a huge difference between the types of lubricant you use, especially when it comes to vibrators. If you use the wrong types you can ruin your brand new sex toy!

OIL-BASED LUBRICANTS

Stay away from the oil-based lubricants for use with your vibrator. Oil based lubes are meant for external use only (body massages for example), as your body can't properly clean itself when they're used internally. It can also coat your vibrator and make it very hard, or impossible, to clean. There's no reason to risk using oil based lubes with any sex toys!

SILICONE BASED LUBRICANT

Silicone lube is perfectly fine for internal use, or on sex toys made of hard plastics, metal or wood. If your vibrator is made of plastic it should be fine to use. When one silicone meets other silicone it begins to stick and melt into each other. If you use your expensive silicone vibrator with silicone lube you may find it permanently stuck with a coat of lubricant.

WATER BASED LUBRICANTS

Water-based lubricants are the best to use with your favorite sex toys.  They are also very easy to clean off of your toy after use. While it may not last as long as silicone lube before it gets kind of tacky, water-based lube will work great as long as you reapply or add more water.

BENEFITS OF USING SEX TOYS

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Everyone should own a sex toy and here’s why:- 

  • Using sex toys will help you learn about yourself. You’ll get first-hand knowledge of what you like and don’t like, which in turn, will help you feel more confident when you’re in bed with a partner.
  • Exploring your sexuality and keeping yourself satisfied generally makes you happier and less stressed out. Set aside a few minutes of your day when you find yourself swamped in one of those insanely busy weeks and you just may keep your sanity afloat.
  • Frequently indulging in some self-love will also help you reach orgasm more often and with greater ease.
  • Studies have found that women and men who masturbate using sex toys regularly tend to have higher self-esteem and body confidence than those who don’t.
  • Using sex toys can relieve headaches and pain in general. When you experience an orgasm, your brain floods your body with endorphins, which not only make you feel good, it also blocks pain receptors.
  • Sex toys are safer than actual sex. You can not get pregnant from a sex toy. However, cleaning is still a must, as you can develop an infection from improperly cleaned sex toys.
  • You can get the job done whenever you feel like it. You don’t need to wait for a partner to come along to help you take care of your needs, all you must do is reach into your drawer and you’re guaranteed a good time.

If some or all these benefits interest you, it just might be time to get a sex toy

We are always working towards de-stigmatizing sexuality, and the taboo associated with sex toys, we urge you to use and experience them yourself to take your pleasure into your own hands.