Top Types of Couples' Toys

When shopping for two, the goal is to find products that complement your bodies rather than getting in the way. Here are the top categories of couples' toys available at Aren't We Naughty:

1. App-Controlled and Bluetooth Toys

Technology has revolutionized couples' play, especially for those in long-distance relationships or partners who love the thrill of giving up control.

• Lovense Bluetooth Vibrators: Lovense is the industry leader in interactive tech. Their Bluetooth-enabled vibrators can be controlled via a smartphone app from anywhere in the room or anywhere in the world.
• Interactive Masturbators: For penis owners, toys like the Lovense Max 2, Lovense Solace, and Lovense Calor offer depth-controlled thrusting and warming features that can sync with a partner’s app, creating an incredibly immersive shared experience.

2. Wearable Couples' Vibrators

Wearable toys are designed for hands-free stimulation and can be used during or outside of penetrative sex. This category includes U-shaped vibrators for shared stimulation during intercourse, as well as panty vibrators and other discreet, app-controlled toys that can be worn throughout the day or during foreplay. They deliver consistent, targeted stimulation without limiting movement.

3. Wands and Shared Massagers

A powerful wand is a staple for any couple's bedside table. They are perfect for extended foreplay, sensual massages, and targeted stimulation.

Swan Collection: The Swan Era and Swan Sceptre are legendary for their unquestionable strength and rumbly motors. They are perfect for partners who want to tease and please each other with deep, resonant vibrations before or during intercourse.

4. Advanced Dildos and Strokers

Using solo toys together is a fantastic way to bond. Mutual masturbation or using a toy on your partner allows you to learn exactly what they enjoy.

Naked Addiction: For couples exploring deeper penetration or pegging, the Naked Addiction line offers premium, body-safe silicone dildos, some even featuring rotating and thrusting mechanisms for hands-free fun.

5. Toys for Non-Penetrative Intimacy

Sex toys aren’t limited to penetrative play. For couples who can’t or prefer not to have penetrative sex, whether for medical, physical, or personal reasons, there are plenty of options designed to deliver shared pleasure. Wands, external vibrators, strokers, and app-controlled toys provide powerful stimulation without penetration, making intimacy accessible, comfortable, and satisfying for every body and every relationship.

How to Talk to Your Partner About Toys

Introducing the idea of toys can sometimes feel intimidating. Here are our top tips for a smooth, exciting conversation:

1. Focus on "Adding," Not "Replacing": Reassure your partner that a toy is an accessory to enhance what you already have, not a replacement for them.
2. Shop Together: Browse the Aren't We Naughty website together. Looking at the different shapes, colours, and functions can spark fun conversations about your fantasies.
3. Start Small: If your partner is hesitant, don't jump straight into advanced BDSM gear. Start with something simple and non-intimidating, like a small bullet vibrator or a couples' massage oil.

Shop Our Best-Selling Brands for Couples

Couples continually return to these trusted brands for their reliability, body-safe materials, and incredible power:

• Lovense: The absolute best for high-tech, app-controlled intimacy, whether you are in the same bed or across the country.
• Swan: Luxurious, incredibly powerful wands and dual-action vibrators designed for deep, rumbly pleasure.
• Softies: Perfect for beginners. Their dual silicone body vibes and classic 5" vibrators are soft, colorful, and highly effective.

Here's What People Have to Say

Our community thrives on shared experiences. While we deeply respect our customers' privacy, our glowing testimonials consistently highlight how our products have transformed relationships.

• "Introducing a Lovense toy completely changed our date nights. The app control adds such a fun, teasing element!"
• "We bought the Swan Era for our anniversary, and the power is breathtaking. It's our new favorite addition to the bedroom." (Read more real-world feedback in this Swan Era review.)
• Couples frequently praise our discreet shipping and the welcoming, judgment-free atmosphere of our physical retail locations. You can also explore more hands-on insights from our partners, like this Swan Bullet review

The Perfect Pairings: Lubricants and Care

A high-quality lubricant is the secret ingredient to flawless couples' play. It reduces friction, heightens sensitivity, and makes everything feel more natural.

• Premium Glides: We highly recommend our Pjur line (such as Pjur Analyse Me or Pjur Backdoor) or the excellent value of EasyGlide.
• The Golden Rule: If you are using premium silicone toys from brands like Softies or Naked Addiction, always use a water-based lubricant to protect the material.
• Toy Hygiene: Always wash your toys together after use with warm water and an antibacterial toy cleaner to ensure they are safe and ready for your next session.